So
What About
our Family? In my writings I share the Biblical principles
my wife Sallie and I followed in raising our two children and building our marriage
of 27 years. We have been blessed
to witness each of our children develop a strong faith and Christian walk.
Ruth is now
24 and a practicing physical therapist. Tim is 22 and serving on active duty
as an infantry officer in the US Army. We are not perfect, but our friends who know us
personally and have spent time in our home know that we are a happy family
and have a lot of fun together.
However, we weren’t always
this happy. During the early years of our marriage my wife and I experienced
significant conflicts. God is most gracious. He taught us how to overcome
the challenges we faced and find spiritual harmony in our home. Our marriage
has gotten better each year. The reason we are having so much fun today is
that Biblical truth, when applied to the problems and challenges of the
modern family, works just as well now as it did 2000 years ago. To that end
we share this collection of Biblically sound resources for couples and
parents…
Children are a Blessing! As parents we didnt do everything right. Even though we were both Christians when we married, we
thought at times about calling it quits in the first few years. Thanks to our upbringing and religious convictions,
divorce was never a word in our vocabulary. Separation, our only allowable alternative,
was highly impractical! At times we thought God made a serious mistake in
bringing us together! Despite our genuine faith and regular Bible study, for the first seven years of our marriage we were only marginally
successful in making Christianity work comfortably in our own home. We experienced
frequent conflict over many things. The only thing we
always agreed on in those early years was that we truly loved our children
and could not
bear to see their lives torn apart by a failed marriage! God was gracious and
He helped us
learn how to live together and love one another, despite our stubborn ways!
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